Imposter Syndrome Therapy for High-Achieving Women
You deserve to stop feeling like a fraud.
Online imposter syndrome therapy to challenge self-doubt and trust your expertise. Built for leaders, founders, and ambitious professionals.
Licensed to provide therapy in MA, NY, CO, VT, and FL.
As a High-achieving Woman, You Aren’t Just “Lucky.”
You’re qualified and you don’t have to keep proving it to feel legitimate. I'm Alexis Verbin, LCSW, LICSW, and I provide online imposter syndrome treatment for ambitious professionals who want fewer spiraling thoughts, clearer decisions, and confidence grounded in reality.
According to a 2020 KPMG study, 75% of female executives have experienced imposter syndrome at some point in their careers.
Tired of Proving Yourself to a Room That Already Believes in You?
✔ HIPAA-secure video sessions tailored to your personal and professional stressors.
✔ Practical CBT, ACT, and IFS tools you can use this week.
✔ Convenient support for busy professionals with flexible scheduling and evening availability.
✔ Support for High-Achieving Professionals in Massachusetts, New York, Colorado, Vermont, and Florida.
Who I Help in Therapy
I work with professionals, leaders, high achievers, and founders who appear composed at work yet never feel good enough. You might be someone who delays applying, presenting, or negotiating because "it's not good enough," or you deflect credit and feel you must prove yourself, again and again. My clients come from medicine, law, tech, consulting, and academia, fields where the pressure to prove yourself never really turns off, and where first-generation professionals and executives alike often find themselves questioning whether they truly belong.
I Specialize in Supporting:
✔ Female Executives
You feel intense pressure to consistently outperform male counterparts just to earn respect and visibility in leadership spaces.
✔ Emerging Leaders
You struggle to trust your readiness for promotion and find it difficult to embrace your authority, even when others recognize your capabilities.
✔ Solopreneurs & Founders
You're caught in analysis paralysis, questioning every major decision and feeling stuck despite your expertise.
✔ Grad Students & Young Professionals
You battle imposter syndrome in competitive fields, constantly wondering if you truly belong or just got lucky.
✔ Women Navigating Career Transitions
You are contemplating a significant career change, but the self-doubt and imposter thoughts prevent you from taking action. You question whether you have the mental capacity, motivation, energy, or required skills to start over in a new field.
You don’t need to earn your right to belong.
You have already done the work to get here. Therapy helps you actually believe that. I work with high-achieving women who are done performing confidence they do not feel, and ready to build something more solid underneath it.
What is Imposter Syndrome?
Imposter syndrome is the persistent belief that your success was not fully earned, and that at some point, the people around you will figure that out. It goes by other names, such as fraud syndrome, perceived fraudulence, or the impostor phenomenon. Regardless of the name, the experience is the same. At work, it often shows up as over-preparing, second-guessing decisions, never feeling good enough no matter how far you have come, and staying quiet for fear of saying the wrong thing. You feel constant pressure to keep proving yourself, even after the positive feedback, the promotion, the title change, and the raise.
For high-achieving women, imposter syndrome often shows up in the workplace through a handful of common patterns.
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Feeling the need to prove your worth through constant effort (staying late when others leave on time).
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Avoiding new opportunities to escape potential "exposure" (declining promotions or speaking opportunities). This fear often goes hand-in-hand with confidence stressors addressed in therapy for self-esteem.
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Undervaluing your skills or hesitating to celebrate your wins.
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Overloading yourself with unrealistic expectations.
Picture This
You just got promoted, and instead of feeling excited, you spend the next week waiting for someone to realize they made a mistake. You are deflecting all congratulations and wondering how long it will be before the truth comes out. That experience is more common than most people admit, and it is exactly what imposter syndrome therapy is designed to address.
Why Does Imposter Syndrome Persist?
The usual fixes do not work. The more you achieve, the more there is to lose. The more you prepare, the more the anxiety temporarily subsides, which reinforces the idea that preparation was the only thing standing between you and exposure. Therapy works differently. Instead of managing the symptoms, it addresses the belief system underneath them.
5 Types of Imposter Syndrome
Imposter syndrome doesn't look the same for everyone. Researcher Valerie Young identified five competence types that drive imposter feelings, and most high-achieving women recognize themselves in at least one.
The Perfectionist
You set impossibly high standards, and anything short of perfect feels like failure. You overwork, over-prepare, and replay mistakes long after your performance proved you didn't need to.
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We challenge your unrealistic standards while rebuilding your relationship with achievement. For some, this overlaps with perfectionism therapy, where the goal is releasing the pressure to perform flawlessly.
The Superhero
You tie your worth to how much you can accomplish. Slowing down or asking for support feels like falling behind, even when your plate is fuller than anyone else's.
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Learn to separate your identity from productivity, implement healthy boundaries, and learn its okay to rest without guilt.
If you’re chronically exhausted, burnout therapy may be worth exploring.
The Natural Genius
You believe competence should come quickly. When something takes more effort than expected, you don't feel capable.
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We explore what effort means to you and challenge the belief that needing practice means you are falling behind. Over time, it becomes easier to tolerate not knowing everything yet without turning that uncertainty into shame.
The Soloist
You pride yourself on handling everything alone. You avoid asking for help because you see it as a personal weakness or evidence that you don’t belong.
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We examine the beliefs underneath your patterns. We then practice accepting support without labeling it as a failure.
The Expert
No credential ever feels like enough. You keep chasing one more training, one more certification, one more title before you'll let yourself feel qualified.
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Learn to recognize when "not knowing enough" is imposter syndrome talking, and practice acting without perfect certainty.
Therapy Approach
Evidence-based approaches I use in therapy for imposter syndrome:
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Name all-or-nothing, mind-reading, and discounting-the-positive. Replace them with balanced statements you'd offer a colleague.
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Make room for discomfort and move toward what matters: applying, speaking up, leading.
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Meet these protective parts with curiosity so they can step back rather than take over.
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Grounding techniques and breathing practices to settle your nervous system before presentations, interviews, and big decisions.
Treatment Benefits
Here's what working with an imposter syndrome therapist actually changes:
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Stop second-guessing decisions you are qualified to make. You will notice it in real moments: staying in a meeting without rehearsing every word beforehand, making a call and moving forward without replaying it for three days.
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You stop attributing each and every win to luck or timing. Instead, you begin to recognize what you contributed that led to your success. Over time, you build a sense of worth that does not reset every time you hit a new milestone or wait for someone else to validate it.
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Most high achievers are far harder on themselves than they would ever be on someone else in the same situation. Therapy helps you close that gap. You start meeting your own mistakes and struggles with the same patience you would extend to a colleague or a friend.
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Develop resilience that does not disappear with each and every mistake. Replace harsh self-criticism with the same constructive feedback you would give to a mentee or someone you supervise.
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Say yes to speaking engagements, promotions, and stretch assignments. You stop bracing for the moment someone figures out you do not belong, and start showing up as the professional you already are.
FAQs: Working With an Imposter Syndrome Therapist
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Yes. Many high-achieving professionals, executives, leaders, and business owners experience imposter syndrome at some point. Often, it shows up at work first, especially when you step into leadership, public visibility, or a more competitive environment. It is more common than you might think, and nothing to be ashamed of. It is a challenge that therapy can help you work through, and it often goes hand in hand with anxiety.
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At first, you may not call it imposter syndrome. Instead, you find yourself overpreparing for conversations or meetings you should be able to walk into without so much second-guessing. When someone praises your work, it makes you uncomfortable, and you discount it almost immediately. After you finish a project, instead of exhaling, you start scanning for what you missed or preparing for what could go wrong next. If you struggle to take in your successes and fear that it is only a matter of time before people figure out you do not belong, imposter syndrome may be part of what is happening. Therapy can help you understand where that pattern comes from and start breaking the cycle.
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Yes. For many women, imposter thoughts can actually worsen when reaching the next level of success. Examples include a promotion, a bigger title, or a role that took years to earn. The pressure intensifies because the higher your position, the more there is to lose. Instead of quieting the self-doubt, you start prepping even more and second-guessing your work, as if you were new to your career. Instead of accepting the win and acknowledging why it is well deserved, the internal narrative continues to say it was just “luck.” This is an exhausting pattern that therapy can help change, not just manage.
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Imposter syndrome can quietly wear down your mental health over time. Many people do not realize how much energy they are spending on self-doubt, overpreparation, and second-guessing until those patterns start to feel normal.
Over time, imposter syndrome can affect your sleep, relationships, confidence, and ability to enjoy your accomplishments. It can also contribute to anxiety, chronic stress, perfectionism, and burnout, which are often worth addressing together in therapy.
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No. Imposter syndrome is not a formal mental health diagnosis or a diagnosable mental illness. However, the self-doubt, anxiety, stress, and avoidance associated with it are very real and can still affect your well-being.
Therapy does not require imposter syndrome itself to be a diagnosis in order to address these patterns. If another clinical diagnosis is appropriate, including for insurance purposes, that is something we can discuss during our work together.
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That varies. Some people come in with one specific pattern they want to address and start feeling differently within a few sessions. Others have been running this way for years and want to do deeper work. There is no single right answer, but you will not be guessing in the dark. We set goals for healing imposter syndrome, and check in on them regularly. The free 30-minute consult is a good place to start figuring out what makes sense for your situation.
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Your first session is an opportunity for us to get to know each other and explore your goals for therapy. We will discuss your experiences with imposter syndrome, any challenges you are facing, and what you hope to gain from our work together. It is a low-pressure conversation where we get to start building rapport. We use the time to begin understanding what is going on and map out what you want to change.
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I am licensed to practice in Massachusetts, New York, Colorado, Vermont, and Florida, and provide online therapy to adults who are physically located in those states at the time of the session.
If you are based in Boston or New York City, learn more about working with a Boston and NYC imposter syndrome therapist.
From the Wellcore Healing Blog: Imposter Syndrome
Honest perspectives on what imposter syndrome actually looks like in demanding careers, and what helps.
Feeling like a fraud does not mean you are one. These articles dig into the patterns behind imposter syndrome, why it shows up when things are going well, and what real change looks like for high-achieving women and professionals.
Read all imposter syndrome articles on the Wellcore Healing blog →
“Imposter syndrome is the fear of being 'found out,' but what if the only thing to discover is how talented and deserving you’ve been all along?”
Clinician-Curated Imposter Syndrome Reading
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A foundational book on imposter syndrome, particularly for high-achieving women, with practical tools for overcoming self-doubt.
Author: Valerie Young, Ed.D.
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A great mix of psychological insights and real-life strategies to break free from the imposter cycle.
Author: Dr. Jessamy Hibberd
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A structured 3-step program designed to help individuals identify and challenge imposter thoughts.
Authors: Lisa Orbé-Austin, PhD & Richard Orbé-Austin, PhD
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Full Reading List Coming Soon!
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The books recommended here are for informational and educational purposes only. They are not a substitute for professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If you are struggling with perfectionism, anxiety, or any mental health concerns, consider reaching out to a licensed therapist or mental health professional for personalized support.
Ready to Start Therapy for Imposter Syndrome?
You have already done the hard part of building a career worth being proud of. Therapy helps you actually feel that. If you are ready to stop waiting to be found out and start showing up as the professional you already are, the free 30-minute consult is where we start.