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Burnout Therapy for High-Achieving Women

You are still showing up. But you have been running on empty for longer than you want to admit. Online therapy for burnout helps high-achieving women recover without giving up everything they have worked for

Serving driven professionals, leaders, and founders online in MA, NY, CO, VT, and FL.

You Did Everything Right. So Why Does it Feel This Hard?

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You used to feel excited about your work. Now you drag yourself through the day, wondering where that version of you went. What you're experiencing has a name: high-functioning exhaustion. You feel tired in your bones. You dread your calendar. Your brain will not shut off. Even rest feels like another task you are failing at.

You've tried pushing through. You've taken the vacation, got a massage, slept in, and downloaded the meditation app. But the exhaustion doesn't lift. The resentment keeps building.

And somewhere in the back of your mind, you've started asking yourself:

Is this just what success feels like? It's not. And it doesn't have to stay this way.

You Don’t Have to Navigate This Period Alone

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Burnout Support Built for High-Achieving Professional Women

We get underneath the specific pressures driving your burnout like high standards, people-pleasing, and the belief that rest has to be earned. Then we work on addressing them in a way that produces real change.

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Therapy Tools You Can Use Between Sessions

You don't have time to wait months for relief. I use evidence-based approaches including CBT, ACT, and somatic tools to give you practical strategies you can apply right away, not just in the therapy room.

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Flexible Scheduling That Fits a Full Life

Your calendar is already packed. I offer secure virtual sessions with select evening availability so getting support doesn't become another thing to squeeze in.

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Licensed Across 5 States

Providing online therapy for burnout throughout Massachusetts, New York, Colorado, Vermont, and Florida.

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Burnout Isn’t a Personal Weakness.

It is a nervous system stuck in survival mode for too long.

In therapy, we slow the spiral. We get specific about what is draining you, what is keeping you in overdrive, and what it will take to feel like yourself again.

What is Burnout?

Burnout is real, and it’s researched.

It’s a work-related syndrome with three core features: deep exhaustion, more detachment or cynicism, and feeling less effective even when you’re still performing. [1][2]

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You're Accomplished. You’re Driven. You’re Exhausted.

High-achieving women don't always recognize burnout when it's happening to them. Because you're still showing up. Still delivering. Still saying yes and people-pleasing. But something has shifted. If you read the following list of burnout signs and experience a wave of recognition, you're not weak or broken. You're burned out. And there's a real difference.

Signs of Burnout

While burnout impacts everyone differently, it often manifests as emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion and can include struggles with:

  • SLEEP feels off no matter how much you get, and fatigue follows you into the day even after a full night

  • WORK, which used to energize you, now feels hollow or pointless

  • MOOD is off and you've become cynical or checked out, even about things you used to care about

  • BODY keeps sending signals you're trying to ignore: headaches, tension, getting sick more often

  • RELATIONSHIPS are suffering because you've become emotionally drained, withdrawn, or more irritable with the people closest to you

  • HOME life is falling apart since all of your time and energy goes towards your job

  • MOTIVATION and DRIVE are gone and no amount of self-talk gets you moving the next day

  • INNER VOICE keeps saying you just need to get through this month, and it never actually changes

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Burnout Looks Different When You're a Woman in a High-Pressure Career

Not all burnout is the same. And not all therapists understand the specific pressure you're carrying.

When you're a woman working in tech, finance, law, consulting, or another high-demand field, you're not just managing a heavy workload. You're managing perception. You're proving yourself in rooms where you're often the only woman. You're navigating dynamics that your male colleagues don't have to think about. The pressure to perform without ever showing cracks doesn't go away.

And when you finally admit you're struggling, there's usually a voice that cuts in right away. Other people have it worse. You chose this. You should be grateful.

That voice isn't helping you. It's keeping you stuck.

I specialize in high-achieving professional women, particularly those in competitive industries, who are exhausted not just from the work but from everything that comes with doing that work as a woman. We don't just treat the symptoms. During therapy, we get to what's underneath.

Burnout doesn't resolve on its own. But it does respond to the right support.

Why Smart, Self-Aware Women Still Burn Out


You've read the articles. You know what burnout is. So why can't you just fix it?

Because burnout isn't a productivity problem or a time management failure. It's what happens when the demands on you have outpaced your ability to recover for too long.

And for high-achieving women, there are usually a few specific patterns making it worse. These aren't character flaws. They're patterns. And patterns can change.

High standards don’t cause burnout. Unchecked demands do.

Burnout tends to rise when the pressure stays high and recovery stays low, especially in high performers who struggle to detach from work. [3]
Gender differences in burnout have been observed, including higher emotional exhaustion in some groups. [4]

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What to Expect in Online Therapy for Burnout


This isn't about telling you to set better boundaries and sending you on your way. Real recovery is deeper than that, and it's also more doable than most people expect. In our sessions, we slow down enough to understand what got you here. Not to assign blame, but to actually see what's been driving this so we can start doing something different.

Depending on what's going on for you, our work together may include:

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Rest is not a reward. It is how you stay in the game.
— Alexis Verbin, LCSW, LICSW

What Changes When You Work on Burnout

Recovery isn't just about feeling less exhausted. It changes how you show up at work, at home, and with yourself.

You May Notice:

  • Your brain quiets down at night and morning dread fades

  • Your motivation and energy return

  • You’re able to reconnect with the things that bring you joy

  • Work feels more manageable, less stressful, and not pointless

  • You stop saying yes to everything and hold your limits without the guilt spiral

  • Your relationships improve with the people who matter most

  • You feel like yourself again and you have real tools to keep it that way

About Your Wellcore Healing Therapist

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I'm Alexis Verbin, LCSW, LICSW, a multi-state-licensed clinician (MA, NY, CO, VT, & FL) who built Wellcore Healing specifically to work with women like you. Driven. Capable. High-functioning on the outside, running on fumes on the inside.

I take your ambitions seriously. I'm not here to tell you to slow down or want less. I'm here to help you figure out how to keep going in a way that's actually sustainable. My approach is warm, collaborative, and direct, and we move at a pace that makes sense for you. You'll always know why we're doing what we're doing.

Currently accepting new clients in Boston, NYC, Denver, and throughout Massachusetts, New York, Colorado, Vermont, and Florida.

FAQs: Questions About Burnout Therapy

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From the Wellcore Healing Blog: Burnout


Tools and perspectives for when you're done pushing through and ready to actually feel better.

If burnout has been impacting you longer than you want to admit, you are not alone. These articles explore how it shows up for high-achieving women and offer practical tools you can use right now. Not just theory.

Read all burnout articles on the Wellcore Healing blog

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You Worked Hard to Get Here. You Deserve to Actually Enjoy It.

Burnout isn't the price of success. It's a signal worth paying attention to. If you're ready to stop living on the edge of exhaustion and burnout and start building something that actually feels like the life you worked for, let's talk.

I offer a free 30-minute phone consultation to see if we are a fit. No pressure, no commitment. Just a real conversation about where you are and what might help.

Currently accepting new therapy clients. Virtual sessions available.

[ + ] References and Research on Burnout

[1] Maslach, C., & Leiter, M. P. (2016). Understanding the burnout experience: Recent research and its implications for psychiatry. World Psychiatry, 15(2), 103–111. https://doi.org/10.1002/wps.20311. View Source

[2] World Health Organization. (2019). Burn-out an “occupational phenomenon”: International Classification of Diseases (ICD-11). View Source

[3] Hill, A. P., & Curran, T. (2016). Multidimensional perfectionism and burnout: A meta-analysis. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 20(3), 269–288. https://doi.org/10.1177/1088868315596286. View Source

[4] Purvanova, R. K., & Muros, J. P. (2010). Gender differences in burnout: A meta-analysis. Journal of Vocational Behavior, 77(2), 168–185. View Source

[5] Richardson, K. M., & Rothstein, H. R. (2008). Effects of occupational stress management intervention programs: A meta-analysis. Journal of Occupational Health Psychology, 13(1), 69–93. View Source

[6] Hayes, S. C., Strosahl, K. D., & Wilson, K. G. (2012). Acceptance and commitment therapy: The process and practice of mindful change (2nd ed.). Guilford Press. View Source

[7] Flaxman, P. E., Bond, F. W., & Livheim, F. (2013). The mindful and effective employee: An acceptance and commitment therapy training manual for improving well-being and performance. New Harbinger. View Source

[8] Khoury, B., Lecomte, T., Fortin, G., et al. (2013). Mindfulness-based therapy: A comprehensive meta-analysis. Clinical Psychology Review, 33(6), 763–771. View Source

[9] Andersson, G., & Titov, N. (2014). Advantages and limitations of Internet-based interventions for common mental disorders. World Psychiatry, 13(1), 4–11. https://doi.org/10.1002/wps.20083. View Source